Be the one loving

Funny how life's experiences can shape how we act to others, at times open like a floating butterfly, and at other times, closed off with walls that are are unbreakable.  Most times, we do the latter as a protection mode, not only for ourselves but truthfully, we believe for others.  
What causes you to close off?  What, helps others peel the layers away?  

Look at the list of items and then, ask "why".  

What exactly do you have to lose?  If the reaction of another isn't what you want, perhaps it's what you need to hear or see.  Perhaps, when you open up, you find something more than you anticipate?  

Someone told me a few years back, that it truly is okay to let people know you love them.  Even if it's for a moment.  Love their actions, love their smiles, love their joy.  Loving someone is accepting them for who they are, flaws and all.  It is okay to admit it and it's even better to give it.  The most wonderful feeling is receiving it.  

Be the one loving.  Be the one accepting.  Be the one admitting it.