Some parts of my life however, I’ve kept guarded as my intention was to protect. After some time, I’ve discovered that not only does it not protect, but enables the other side to be stronger.
I want you to know, that no matter how tough a journey can be, it’s entirely up to you on the speed of your recovery, the fears to over come and the strength you discover as you take your steps towards a healthier life. Both mentally and physically.
Now as I move forward with my personal truths, I’ll state that while you will hear or read in the news, about abusive behaviour from those in power. This is simply no longer acceptable. Perhaps to some, it seems quite a bit but to someone with my past, it confirms how society has allowed this and it’s time to make a stand. Again, going back to what I said before, we can do something we feel that is protective by not saying a word and enabling or speaking up which is more difficult but braver than we know but ultimately disabling.
In my past life, I endured comments by men who thought were right and actions by men who thought they were entitled. I put up with it, not saying a word as I didn’t see my value. Not only did I not see my value, they didn’t either. It’s taken 4 + years to walk away from that life, 4 + years to recognize my value and 20 + years to see this behaviour was wrong.
I encourage you to not only come out with the truths but to disable those who feel entitled to behave in a way that is not only hurtful but is unhealthy and no longer acceptable. Women have value, women are people and women have rights. Start standing up for them.
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